HOW TO MAKE A COMPLAINT?

Many people elect never to complain because they mistakenly imagine that anyone who objects to behavior is a troublemaker or a shrew. More often than not, these people have grown up under the domination of a haranguing parent, and they would now rather suffer nearly any abuse than risk resembling the parent. Still others withhold their complaints out of fear that their love is unrequited and that they’re worthwhile to the other person only upon the condition that they act compliantly. They go through life on topics, suspecting that their mate is waiting for the opportune moment to tell them that the relationship is over; these people stand ready to make immense sacrifices to maintain a harmonious atmosphere, on the theory that discord would give their mate the opportunity he is waiting for.