Telling the person you’re sorry you had to disagree with him is apologizing for what you said in good faith. Apologizing is asking the other people to brace you so that you won’t fall down under the stress of disagreeing with him. Doing so imposes unnecessary burden on him; it will detract from the merit of your accomplishment, in your own mind, and renew your conflict about whether you had the right to say what you did. Among the invariable motivators for sarcasm are contempt and fear. Your contempt will predispose the other person not to confront him directly; you are intensifying your fear of him.
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